Friday, February 19, 2016

Bhabhi Par Dil Aa Gaya Hai! Ilaaj Ka Koi Tareeqa Hai?

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Bhabhi Par Dil Aa Gaya Hai! Woh Usay Apne Liye Chahaney Laga Hai, Ilaaj Ka Koi Tareeqa Hai?


Mein 26 Saal Ka Naujawan Hun, Meri Abhi Tak Shadi Nahi Hui, Mein Aur Merey Shadishuda (Married) Bhai Aik Hi Makaan Mein Rehtay Hain, Maamla Yeh Hai Ke Mein Apni Bhabhi Se Mohabbat Karney Laga Hun, Aur Is Had Tak Pohanch Gaya Hun Ke Mein Usay Apne Liye Chahanay Lga Hun, Halaanki Woh Maa Bhi Ban Chuki Hai, Aur Abhi Tak Mein Is Mohabbat Ko Apne Dil Mein Chupaye Hue Hun.
Sawal Yeh Hai Ke: Kya Mujhey Is Mohabbat Par Gunah Hoga? Halaanki Yeh Mohabbat Ghair Iraadi Hai, Mujhe Batayen Mein Kiya Karun?


Alhamdulillah: 
Allah Taala Kisi Bandey Se Ghair Iraadi Af-aal Par Hisaab Nahi Lega, Farmaan e Baari Taala Hai:
لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللّٰهُ نَفْسًا اِلَّا وُسْعَهَا
Tarjuma : Allah Taala Kisi Ko Uski Taaqat Se Barh Kar Mukallaf Nahi Banata. (Allah Taalaa Kisi Jaan Ko Us Ki Taqat Say Ziyada Takleef Nahi Deta).
(Surah Baqarah: Surah No: 2 Ayat No: 286)

Isi Tarah Aik Maqam Par Farmaya:
لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا مَا آَتَاهَا 
Tarjuma: Kisi Shakhs Ko Allah Takleef Nahi Deta Magar Utni Hi Jitni Taqat Usay Dey Rakhi Hai.
(Surah Talaq: Surah No: 65 Ayat No: 7)

Aao Zara Khul Kar Baat Kartey Hain Ke Chalo Maan Liya Key Aap Ka Bhabhi Ke Saath Mohabbat Ka Koi Iradah Nahi Tha, Lekin Aap Un Asbaab Ke Baray Mein Kya Kahengey Jin Ki Wajah Se Aap Yahan Tak Pahunchey Ho?

Kya Is Mohabbat Se Pehlay Nazrein Nahi Milein? Ya Us Se Baat Nahi Hue? Ya Uskay Saath Baithey Nahi?

Aap Key Dil Mein Uski Mohabbat Utrney Se Pehlay Yahi Kaam Hue Hongey, Aur Yeh Sab Kuch Wazeh Shar’ee Nusoos (Shar’ee Dalail) Ki Roshni Mein Mamnoo (Mana) Hai, Is Liye Un Mamlaat Par Aapko Mu’aakhza (Pakad Ya Saza) Ka Saamna Karna Padega, Aur Agar Aap Ki Bhabhi Bhi Isi Tarah Mutasahil Hue (Means Shareeyat Key Mutabiq Aap Key Saath Bartaao Nahi Kiya Tha) To Usay Bhi Barabar Ka Gunah Hoga.

Yaad Rakhna! Shaitan Tumhe Isi Hadd Par Akela Nahi Choreyga Ke Tum Uski Mohabbat Dil Mein Liye Phiro Aur Bas! Balkay Apkee Zabaan Se Ya Harkaat Se Yeh Wazeh Karwa Dayga, Is Liye Ghaafil Mat Bano, Aur Is Se Pehlay Ke Waqt Jata Rahay Apne Nafs Ko Bacha Lo, In Jaisay Masail Mein Nateeja Bohot Bhayanak Hota Hai, Aqalmand Afraad (Afraad Means Log) Un Nataij Ko Jantay Hain, Is Liye Shaitan Ke Makr o Fraib Mein Mat Aajana, Is Se Bach Kar Rehna, Apne Liye, Apne Bhai Ke Liye Aur Walidain Ke Liye Allah Se Daro.

Ab Hum Aapko Wazeh Lafzon Mein Kuch Mufeed Mashwaray Detey Hain:
Farz (Suppose) Karo Ke Tumhari Aik Bashaour (Sentient), Pakbaaz Ladki Se Shadi Ho Jati Hai, Aur Uski Mohabbat Tumahray Kisi Bhai Ke Dil Mein Daakhil Ho Jaye To Kya Yeh Surat e Haal Aapko Pasand Hogi?

Pakki Baat Hai Ke Aap Usay Kisi Qeemat Mein Qubool Nahi Karengey.

Aur Phir Kya Aap Is Mohabbat Ke Pehlay Qadam Ko Hi Khatam Karney Ki Koshish Nahi Karogay?

Yeh Bhi Laazmi Baat Hai Ke Aap Uskay Liye Pehla Qadam Uthnay Hi Nahi Dengay.

Achcha Yeh Batao Ke Kya Aap Apne Bhai Ka Uzr (Excuse) Qubool Karogey Ke Yeh Mohabbat Ghair Iraadi (Unintentional) Taur Par Uskay Dil Mein Daakhil Ho Gayi Hai?

Yeh Bhi Laazmi Baat Hai Ke Aap Us Ka Yeh Uzr (Excuse) Qubool Nahi Karogay.

Is liye Yeh Baat ZehanNasheen Kar Lo Ke Jo Baat Aap Kar Rahay Ho Yeh Sab Logon Ke Liye Baar e Giran Hai, Aur Uskay Nataij (Outputs) Bhi Bhayanak Hain, Phir Shariat Ke Mutabiq To Is Ke Asbaab Hi Haraam Hain, Is Liye Is Bemari Ke Control Se Bahar Honay Se Pehlay Pehlay Iska Ilaaj Karo, Warna Iska Ilaaj Mushkil Ho Jayega.

Ilaaj Ke Liye Mundarjazail (Following) Nuqaat (Coordinates) Mufeed Hongey, Hamein Umeed Hai Ke Aap In Nuqaat (Coordinates) Ko Amli Jama Pehna Kar (Means Amal Kar Ke) Apne Aap Ko Bacha Lengey:
1. Kuch Bhi Ho Jaye Apni Bhabhi Par Nazar Daalnay Se Qat’an (Bilkul, Mukammal Taur Se) Aaraaz Karo (Bacho), Jahan Kahin Bhi Un Par Nazar Pad Sakti Hai Wahan Mat Jao, Chahay Koi Taqreeb (Function) Ho Ya Kuch Aur, Wahan Jany Se Mazirat (Apologises) Karlo.
2. Un Ke Saath Bilkul Bhi Baat Na Karo Yahan Tak Ke Salam Bhi Na Karo.
3. Un Ke Baray Mein Sochna Chor Do, Aur Jab Bhi Yaad Aaye To Apney Dil Ko Sambhalo, Aur Usay Rok Do, Apney Aap Ko Yeh Mat Kaho Ki Tumahray Saath Honay Wala Maamla “Mohabbat” Hai Balkay Apne Aap Ko Yeh Samjhao Ke Yeh “Haraam” Hai.
4. Jitni Jaldi Ho Sakay Shadi Karlo, Shadi Is Soch Par Late Na Karo Ke Aap Ki Bhabhi Apki Rafeeq e Hayaat Banaygi.
5. Apni Rehaish (Accommodates) Aur Khanay Peenay Ka Intizam Bhai Aur Bhabhi Se Door Kisi Aur Jagah Karlo, Chahay Shadi Ke Baad Ho, Ya Agar Abhi Mumkin Ho To Achcha Hai, Aur Is Mein Aap Hi Ka Faida Hai, Is Ke Liye Aap Apney Shehar (City) Se Door Kisi Aur Jagah Mulazmat (Naukri, Job) Bhi Kar Satkey Ho.
6. Apney Iman Ko Mazeed Nekiyon Or Taqwa Sey Mazboot Karo, Ahkaamat Ki Paasdaari (Favorably) Aur Mamnooaa Kamon (Mana Kiye Hue Kamon) Se Ruk Jao, Yeh Musallama Baat Hai Ke Jo Apney Aap Ko Achchi Cheezon Mein Masroof Rakhay Woh Buraiyon Se Bach Jata Hai, Yahi Wajah Hai Ke Imaan Se Khaali Dil Hi Shaitan Ka Shikaar Hota Hai, Apni Aql Ko Allah Ki Narazgi Ke Mutalliq Samjhao, Aur Apne Dil Ko Imaan Se Khaali Na Honay Do, Ke Kahin Shaitan Ghalba Na Pa Le.
7. Allah Taala Se Sachchey Dil Ke Saath Dua Mango Ke Uskay Dil Ko Pakbaz Banade, Aur Us Ke Dil Ko Hubb e Illahi (Allah Ki Mohabbat) Aur Hubb e Deen (Deen Ki Mohabbat) Se Bhar Day.

Hum Aap Se Ummeed Karengay Ke Aap In Likhi Hue Baton Par Amal Karengey, Aur Is Tarah Se Aap Apney Daawey Mein Bhi Surkhro Hongey Ke Aap Gunah Se Bachney Ke Liye Mukhlis They.

Allah Taala Apki Hifazat Farmaiye Aur Aapka Haami Aur Nasir (Madadgaar) Ho.
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